.yes, that is right
In Islam the man allowed to marry 4
but there are hard terms
firstly the man must be fair betweem his wives.
And there is a verse of the Quran says
And if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly with the orphan-girls, then marry (other) women of your choice, two or three, or four but if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one or (the captives and the slaves) that your right hands possess. That is nearer to prevent you from doing injustice.
Is this only for rich men or for everyone .... and where is love in this matter and keeping the family together
no it is allowed for every one ,but he have to be able to provide a good standard of living
What he will do with 4 wives for God sake!!! and why you are not allowed to take 4 husbands as well
This is so unfair for women I cannot get it!!! You should be free to get another husband
if the man Decide to have another wife
he must have a Convincing reason
like
if his wife can not have children
so have a second wife
to have children and at the same time
he will not give his first one a bad reward
but he will give her the opportunity to be with her husband and may be will feel that is his children will be like her children
How can a woman accept to be a second or third or fourth wife!!! if I was not good enough to be his one and only wife I will not be a second
wife as it is cruel to
the woman he married and it is not good for me to feel like I am second best as if I was not good enough to marry him
from the first place
How a woman let her husband touches her after knowing that he is sleeping with another three
before Islam people were allowed to marry as more as they want
but after Islam they allows them to marry just four
and I think that is better than to just marry one and have another women in secret
This means if I get old then my husband is allowed to find another younger woman to marry and dumb me.... Is it that easy??? after all these years we spent together
oh on dear Islam respects the women
so the man have to be with his wife in sweet an bad days
والله ما ادري اذا صح هالحكي او لا
بس حكيت قدر المستطاع
ذكرتوني يموقف مر عليي
كنت ادرس مع طالبة من سلوفاكيا
وكان عندها صديق طبعا تعيش معه وقالت لي انهم افترقوا لما هي انطردت من شغلها وصارت من غير راتب
حيث انه صار يجيب اكل له هو وبس وهي معاه بالبيت تظل من غير اكل
فمرة صار وقالتلي بطريقة تنرفز كيف الاسلام يسمح بتعدد الزوجات
فانا اجبتها انو يتزوج عليي لاي سبب سواء كان الاولاد او بسبب مرض الزوجة ويضل يحترمني كما تقول تعاليم الاسلام
افضل من ان يتركني بعد العشرة بسبب المرض ويذهب ليهنئ بعيشته بعيدا عني
بارك الله فيكم ونفع بكم
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